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Thursday, August 25, 2011

I just found out my assistant at work is talking crap about me on her face book page. A good friend of mine discovered her page and sent me the comments. Not only backstabbing but lies! Hummm...what to do? Nothing!

13 comments:

Chrisbails said...

that is horrible. she definately needs to be talked to about it. if it is really horrible than she needs fired. If you live close to Iowa I will be your assistant. I would not talk bad about you.
Facebook is not the best place to talk bad about people because you never know who is going to see it.
Sorry for the to have to happen to you. Now you know her true feelings though. Best closure ever.

christinebails@yahoo.com

Jenn3128 said...

Wow, somebody needs to be put back in her place! Remind her what being an assitant means...go on, who's my bitch, say it!

Jenn3128 said...

wow, I'd obviously be a terrible assistant. I can't even spell it!

Karen C said...

Apparently this person has never heard that employers look at FB and that it can impact her job. Gee, another TSTL person walking around!

Sorry it's something you have to deal with.

Jane said...

I hate office drama. I can never understand why people act so mean and childish.

Leni said...

How about changing up a few things for legal reasons and use her as a mean, ugly villain in a story. Just imagine all of the possibilities:)

Tory Richards said...

I thought about confronting her but if I do then I won't have anything to read. I want to see how far, and stupid, she is. She probably thinks I'm too old and unhip to have a FB page.

Tory Richards said...

Had to laugh at your "who's my bitch" comment, Jenn3128. Made me think of a Friend's episode I saw once. I didn't even notice you'd spelled assistant wrong. Good thing I have an editor! LOL

Tory Richards said...

I've heard they're doing that more and more these days, Karen. I don't think my assistant realizes she has an open profile where anyone can read what she writes. She was smart enough not to mention my name, though.

Tory Richards said...

You and me both, Jane. I've never worked at a place where people dislike me. And it's all because I'm the boss.

Tory Richards said...

Good idea Leni!

Nancy Bristow said...

Debbie...It's good that you're not letting yourself get sucked into office drama...such a waste of energy. Co-workers or anybody else will always think what they will regardless of facts.

If the assistant is all that unhappy working for you, more than likely it will show in her job performance. Keep it documented. If she's a good worker and it's a personality clash, perhaps you can offer her a transfer, if her job performance isn't up to par, as her boss you can put her on notice.

Airing her work laundry on a social network page (name or not) already tells me she's unprofessional and immature. Is that really who you want assisting you? Truly, if she's that unhappy, you'll never see her best work and she needs to move along. ~Nancy

Tory Richards said...

I have files on all my peeps and document what might be needed for the future. Unfortunately with regard to my assistant, she was in place before I got here. She might resent that fact.

Having been a business owner for many years before Disney, I don't take it personal because I know what goes on. Her posting on face book kind of surprised me though, because she's so sweet and helpful to my face.

Someone to definitely watch out for;)